Because of what happened to me during valentine, I have always hated valentine day. I always wish this day never repeats itself because all the memories reflect back when valentine is due . My dear reader, I love you so much and i don't want you to experience what am experiencing everytime. So I will admonish you to heed to my advise. This is what happened to me
''We have been dating for about 2 years, being Christians we were so determined to do it the way it will not go against God. We sometimes strolled around the beach and ate together and we also prayed together.
He was so spiritual that I was completely lost in his love. He was definitely my ideal so I prayed daily that this will end in marriage.
I didn't really realise when I got there but my emotions seemed to rival Usain Bolt.
The Val's day with all the hype and steam had always found us in one church program or the other. But we enjoyed it all the same.Our first val as lovers was however spent outside...in a park...it was so cool...we chatted the whole night, ate ice cream, dinner and walked back home. However on the Second Val's day...oh God...i wish this day can be blotted out forever...Teary...
I yearned for much more closeness and so did he. we agreed to spend the val in his room. He'll cook dinner. I knew all the implications of closed doors but i trusted him. I trusted myself too..you know...Besides we needed some privacy and we were planning to get married soon.
Everything went well and smoothly until after the meals...when we sat down in the sofa to watch a movie.Suddenly, the atmosphere was so tense.
He held my hands as we began...but soon enough...i was resting my head on his laps. I was completely mesmerized as i stared at him up close.
Fuelled by a kissing scene...he placed a peck on my forehead, both cheeks and...lips...and I just couldn't resist him. i wanted to stop but couldn't.
I don't know what had gotten into him...i thought he would apply the breaks and call the halts...but he didn't. So, down we went...undercovers...naked and very ashamed afterwards.
I couldn't pray anymore...i felt so guilty at church...i felt so disappointed in myself...plus he had changed afterwards...we didn't get married because we gradually drifted apart.
From that day I hated love all because of valentine
As i asked for forgiveness from God. I prayed i'll meet a guy who will overlook my mistake.
I always look on Val's day with tears in my eyes...it could have been just one more day of waiting...it wouldn't have hurt to wait...
Let's not compromise our godly principles under the heat of Val's day.
Christ in you, is the hope of all glory''
This is the experience of a lady who always believes in herself that something like this will never happen to her. But it happened
No one is telling you not to celebrate the valentine with your date but one advise, know your dos and dons
Never let anyone decieve you that sex is the best way to proove your love to your partner. Don't give in to sex because you might regret it afterwards and know that REGRETS ARE ALWAYS HEARTBREAKING
''We have been dating for about 2 years, being Christians we were so determined to do it the way it will not go against God. We sometimes strolled around the beach and ate together and we also prayed together.
He was so spiritual that I was completely lost in his love. He was definitely my ideal so I prayed daily that this will end in marriage.
I didn't really realise when I got there but my emotions seemed to rival Usain Bolt.
The Val's day with all the hype and steam had always found us in one church program or the other. But we enjoyed it all the same.Our first val as lovers was however spent outside...in a park...it was so cool...we chatted the whole night, ate ice cream, dinner and walked back home. However on the Second Val's day...oh God...i wish this day can be blotted out forever...Teary...
I yearned for much more closeness and so did he. we agreed to spend the val in his room. He'll cook dinner. I knew all the implications of closed doors but i trusted him. I trusted myself too..you know...Besides we needed some privacy and we were planning to get married soon.
Everything went well and smoothly until after the meals...when we sat down in the sofa to watch a movie.Suddenly, the atmosphere was so tense.
He held my hands as we began...but soon enough...i was resting my head on his laps. I was completely mesmerized as i stared at him up close.
Fuelled by a kissing scene...he placed a peck on my forehead, both cheeks and...lips...and I just couldn't resist him. i wanted to stop but couldn't.
I don't know what had gotten into him...i thought he would apply the breaks and call the halts...but he didn't. So, down we went...undercovers...naked and very ashamed afterwards.
I couldn't pray anymore...i felt so guilty at church...i felt so disappointed in myself...plus he had changed afterwards...we didn't get married because we gradually drifted apart.
From that day I hated love all because of valentine
As i asked for forgiveness from God. I prayed i'll meet a guy who will overlook my mistake.
I always look on Val's day with tears in my eyes...it could have been just one more day of waiting...it wouldn't have hurt to wait...
Let's not compromise our godly principles under the heat of Val's day.
Christ in you, is the hope of all glory''
This is the experience of a lady who always believes in herself that something like this will never happen to her. But it happened
No one is telling you not to celebrate the valentine with your date but one advise, know your dos and dons
Never let anyone decieve you that sex is the best way to proove your love to your partner. Don't give in to sex because you might regret it afterwards and know that REGRETS ARE ALWAYS HEARTBREAKING
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STAY SAFE AND SOUND
HAPPY VALENTINE DAY
Edited by Oppong Ebenezer
Reported by Hon. Antwi Boasiako Michael
Dedicate this to my mother, my best friend Jessi.. and all my friends and luv ones
STAY SAFE AND SOUND
HAPPY VALENTINE DAY
Edited by Oppong Ebenezer
Reported by Hon. Antwi Boasiako Michael
Dedicate this to my mother, my best friend Jessi.. and all my friends and luv ones
NICE ADVICE
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